Have you ever met someone that just thinks they are all that. They’re stuck up and prideful and look at you like you are nothing. It seems that there will always be people who look at others like they are less important, but we are not called to examine the hearts of others. We are called to examine our own heart.
Romans 12:3 says, "For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith." I think this verse is pretty straightforward. Paul is telling us that we should mind how we think of ourselves.
I would invite you to examine yourself. How you view yourself verses others. Are you easily offended? Do you think of yourself deserving certain things? Do you ever find yourself saying, "How dare they . . ." when someone does something unkind to you? I would submit to you that Christ suffered much on our behalf and yet He "opened not his mouth." Christ humbled Himself to save your soul. Is it too much to ask that you humble yourself and show Christ’s spirit to others?
Paul’s exhortation in this verse is that we think soberly. The literal translation of "soberly" means "be in your right mind." It’s kinda funny, Paul is almost saying that when we harbor pride in our hearts, we are out of our minds.
I would encourage you, get in your right mind. Realize how much Christ has done for you. Remember how unworthy you were and are, and think soberly. If we humble ourselves, God even promises that He will exalt us.
"Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble. Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time:" – 1 Peter 5:5b-6